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The bitter truth is a tough pill
to swallow, but it's better you know sooner than later,
especially in these times of sexually transmitted diseases:
Combine picking up an STD with the harsh reality that a
whacked-out spouse (or significant other) is spending your money
on someone/something else other than you/your family, and it all
leads you to a sobering bottom-line reality: Catching them
sooner is always better than later.
Do any of these warning signs
ring any bells?
- Spouse installs passworded folder software so only he/she
can have file access
- Spouse spends more time on the Internet then he/she does
with you or the family
- Spouse gets irritable or jumpy when interrupted
- Excessive time in chat rooms
- Downloaded pictures of opposite sex
- Spouse becomes defensive in conversation
- Large number of screen names on "Buddylist"
- Stopping to check e-mail several times a day or night (i.e.
on the way to the bathroom in the middle of the night, or
rushing home from work on lunch break)
- Passwords are changed/demand for privacy
- Spouse may become distant and withdrawn
- Loss of interest in usual activities, including sex
- Spouse neglects responsibilities
- Sleeping patterns may change- the peek hours of social
interaction on the Internet are late at night
- Credit card bills- pornographic sites; hotel bills;
restaurants; flowers; jewelers;
- Cellular Phone Bills- look for unusual calls/lengths of
conversations
- Spouse begins leaving for unaccounted periods of time
- Odometer reading in spouses vehicle is not consistent with
the mileage of where they said they were going
- When spouse leaves room to take their cellular phone calls
- A post office box
- Passenger seat in vehicle has been moved to an unusual
position
- Unusual credit card or ATM transactions
- A sudden change in style of appearance/wardrobe
- Unaccounted for paid "Sick Days" on paychecks
- "Working Overtime" with no extra hours or benefits to show
on paycheck
Wanna know how to be alerted early in the game if your spouse is
screwing around with your money?
There's
a huge benefit of subscribing to a credit monitoring service
that most people don't even realize:
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