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Tuesday, December 17, 2002

Ten days to go...here's the perfect (and cheap!) gift that literally every single adult in America can benefit from-and even you can afford! The problem with seasonally-forced gift-giving is the challenge of finding something the recipient can truly use or benefit from. With the threat of identity theft in the back of everyone's mind (I'm sure it's in the back of yours) it was only a matter of time before one of the credit reporting bureaus woke up and cashed in. If you.....

  • Have a Social Security Number...
  • Want to acquire a credit card...
  • Hope to buy a car or home...
  • Hope to lease a car, apartment or home...
  • Might be applying for a new job, or be in line for a promotion at your current company anytime in the semi-near future...
  • Will be applying for any type of insurance in the year ahead...then you'll definitely benefit from this gift from credit score ratings system creator Fair Isaac. A credit score-enhanced credit report for only $12.95 (I told you it was cheap!) Wanna know more?

If you're taking prescription medication that your health insurance company has been paying for, the rules of the game are about to change and you might not like it.  Do you have allergies? If you're taking Allegra, Clarinex or Zyrtec, get ready for your insurance company to stop paying for these. Why? Because Claritin is going over the counter this week...read more about it here.

Have you been jacking around and putting off shipping your holiday gifts until the last minute? You'd better be careful-the "shortest lines" are also probably the most expensive: Convenience has a price...here's what you need to know when it comes to shipping on a tight deadline and more importantly, where to avoid shipping and potentially spending twice as much as you have to.

Americans ship over half-a-million packages by either United Parcel Service (UPS), Federal Express (FedEx) or the U.S. Postal Service (USPS) between Thanksgiving and New Year's Eve...but the price goes up as the big day approaches. Though the U.S. Postal Service still delivers the overall best bang for your shipping buck, be careful: Their Priority Mail service touts "delivery in 2-3 days," but there are no guarantees with this class of service, and you really do get exactly what you pay for. If it absolutely, positively has to get there overnight or second-day, I think FedEx is still the most reliable for the price.

Authorized Shipping Outlets (known as ASOs): With only a handful of UPS-run Customer Counters in any given metropolitan area, ASOs are fully-authorized agents of UPS, contracted to accept and receive shipments on their behalf. They can be found practically everywhere at franchised stores; Mailboxes, Etc. is probably the best known...other players in this arena include places like Eagle Postal Centers, Pack 'N Post, Post It Plus, Parcel Plus and Pack 'N Mail.  These businesses offer more service and shorter lines.  They rent mail boxes, prepare parcels for shipping, sell office supplies, notarize documents and will even accept shipments and faxes on behalf of their boxholders. And unlike the Post Office, they'll call a customer and let them know if they have a package waiting, or even field a phone call to check a mailbox and see if it's worthwhile for the boxholder to stop by. Convenience and service, for a price.

This "price of convenience" skyrockets when consumers choose to originate their shipments from one of these privately-owned postal centers: In most cases, each mailing center independently decides how high they'll mark-up the various shipping services they offer. As I covered in a feature story for The Dallas Morning News in December 1998, the mark-up on and premium paid for the convenience of shipping from one of these neighborhood shipping centers varied from a whopping 80% - 105%. Bottom Line? If you're in a hurry and willing to pay almost double, then go for it. But if you can spare a little extra time to stand in line, the Post Office is still the best dollar-for-dollar value.

By the way: I'm not out to trash these shipping centers, just out to make you smarter. I personally spend over $160 a year on my MailBoxes, Etc. mail drop because I try to practice what I preach. When it comes to protecting yourself from potential identity theft, eliminating the chance of your mail being stolen out of your mailbox or just maintaining a level of security and convenience, these neighborhood mailing centers are still the best value.

Attention Fry's Electronics customers: Ever wonder if that item you purchased was really "new"?  Is it possible that you bought an item that had been returned and re-packaged before it was placed on the shelf for re-sale?  Inquiring minds wanna know.....

 

The art of tipping...or why you'd better not forget to grease the right people who take care of you 365 days a year. Who gets paid...and how much? And is this simply a not-so-subtle form of blackmail? It's a subject that always generates a lot of heat every year, and as far as I'm concerned, either you get it or you don't:

  • Should you have to pay someone to simply do their job?  No.
  • But should you pay someone to be treated preferentially? Only if you want to be treated preferentially.
  • Isn't this blackmail? No...it's reality.  Read more about it in a previous column, or visit a website (of course there's a website!) dedicated to the subject.

C'mon ya cheapskate...why not give the best gift of all this holiday season? A weekly shot of un-common sense with some Dover attitude injected for good measure.  The pricetag will even fit into your budget...and just think about the potential "suck up points" you'll earn along the way?  Don't waste your time sending them the link, click over and sign 'em up yourself! 

Didja hear about the 27-year old school teacher who's car broke down, the tow truck driver didn't take her where she wanted to go and as a result she accepted a ride from a total stranger-who ended up raped and stabbed her-to death: It's a horrible story with an important lesson. Read the Boston area story, and then ponder the following questions:
  • Should AAA, the ubiquitous consumer-friendly automobile assistance organization be held responsible for her death? The family thinks so; they're suing AAA for false and misleading advertising, saying they fell short of their marketing promises to protect their clients in an emergency. The lawsuit also alleges that AAA uses deceptive advertising that misleads consumers by exploiting fears about using assistance from strangers. The mother of the victim says her daughter would have never accepted a ride from a stranger if AAA had delivered on their promise.
  • While I'm sorry that this poor woman was raped and murdered, she has to be held at least partially accountable for her own demise. Why? Because she made the choice of accepting a ride from a stranger. She rolled the dice and unfortunately she lost...big time.
  • This opens up an important topic and choice that all of us are going to be faced with eventually: Who do you trust when you're stranded out on the highway? What do you do if nobody shows up from the towing company?
Gotta cell phone? Then you already have an extremely affordable opportunity to obtain cheap roadside assistance for a minimal, additional monthly fee on your cell phone bill, for example:
But what about the old stand-by, AAA? Here are the numbers for their Southern California chapter...you decide:
  • $20 sign-up fee plus,
  • $44 a year annual fee, for a total first year fee of $64-almost twice as much as the services offered by the two cell phone company examples shown above. However...
  • If you want to include another spouse or adult in your household, it'll cost you an extra $21 a year, an $85 annual total versus $36 for whomever's holding the cell phone.
Bottom line? If the tow truck doesn't show up and you're too far away from family or friends to help out: You pay taxes...call a cop. Never accept a ride from a stranger-especially if you're a woman!  (Read more about the services offered by the California Highway Patrol by clicking here and here.)

By the way, if you're already signed up for a roadside assistance-type program, when was the last time you verified their emergency assistance contact numbers? A few months ago I needed to use my Roadside Assistance program for the first time in a couple of years, and realized that the number I'd had programmed in my phone was outdated. Fortunately, I was at home and had the home phone and Internet resource readily available to get their current 800-number, but it took me over 25 minutes to find it. Moral of the story? Always verify all of the contact numbers you have for everybody in an emergency at least once a year. (What a great New Year's resolution, huh?)

Maybe it's not the Roadside Assistance number, but your doctor's or lawyer's office numbers: If you're a professional athlete, maybe you need to update the phone number of a bail bondsman or a company that does DNA tests. Whatever the case may be, verify and update all of those emergency phone numbers before you need them.

Oh you'll love this nugget...according to roadside assistance experts, guess what their busiest time of the year is? New Year's Eve.  And the #1 type of assistance call? Keys locked in cars, many times in front of liquor stores.  [Cheers! Now keep your hands to your side and blow into this little device.....]

You're on the clock: One week to go you've still got a slew of holiday shopping to do on a limited budget?  Check out Ben's 2002 Holiday picks and get some ideas on cool, easy and even free gifts that have gotta make the end of December much easier than you ever thought possible.

 

Is giving cash for a holiday gift tacky? Is it rude? Is it lazy? What about giving gift certificates? Don't they fall into the same category? According to Miss Manners, the syndicated advice columnist who many consider the last word on etiquette, giving cash or a gift certificate for a holiday gift-or any type of gift for that matter-is "paying them to go away."  Yeah...what's her point? And what's wrong with that?
If we're going to continue to act like a bunch of Pavlovian "sheeple" that mindlessly and willingly spend excessive amounts of money on gifts just because the calendar and retailers say we should, then what's the difference? I'd rather give a gift that someone will really appreciate and use than a crappy trinket that ends up being "re-gifted." Read why gift certificates are hotter than ever this holiday season.

And what about re-gifting? What are the rules of re-gifting? [You didn't know there were re-gifting rules, did you?]  If you want more than just the highlights of Washington Post columnist Michelle Singletary's "re-gifting rules," here you go...otherwise:
  • Don't tell. Don't lie if asked, but don't volunteer out of some misplaced guilt. If you are giving what you feel is an appropriate gift, you don't need to reveal its origin.
  • When you receive something you don't want and suspect you'll recycle it, label it with the name of the giver. You don't want to give the same present to the person who gave it to you.
  • Re-wrap any gift you're re-gifting. Be sure to remove any evidence of a previous giver (especially those little gift cards on gift bags).
  • The gift should be in good shape. Re-gifting doesn't mean getting rid of junk to clear closet space.
  • Don't try to pretend your gift was expensive by purposely putting it in a box or bag from a pricey store. That is deceptive and could prove embarrassing to the receiver should he or she try to return the item to the store.

The recent bankruptcy filing of United Airlines is already delivering positive news for consumers flying their friendly skies: Their financial woes could trigger some competition between the airlines that may mean a return of some of the pre-9/11 services we used to take for granted.

Then again, maybe not: You'd better pack light and read about the latest cash-generating change of policy over at American Airlines.

Looking for the perfect gift that could give someone the ultimate "edge" in life? Wanna chance to get past the masks all of us wear in life and see inside someone? There might be a way for you to pull back the curtain to get an unobstructed view; what a tremendous edge of insight if you're thinking about hiring a perfect stranger. What about dating someone? Too many times we hear stories about people that either "changed" or revealed themselves too late.  Is it science or just hype?  Actually, it's only $15.95 (plus shipping and handling) and the perfect stocking stuffer this holiday season. Even if you don't take this stuff seriously, it's a great ice-breaker at the bar, or a definite solution for the excessive (quality) family time with relatives you get to look forward to in the weeks ahead.  Decide for yourself and check out handwriting expert Bart Baggett's special offer for Benjamin Dover Show listeners....

Share the wealth!  Tell any friends you have left, family members still talking to you, or co-workers that haven't ratted you out to Management about the most reliable source of insight and ideas available since Al Gore invented the Internet:  Get 'em to sign up for the [free] weekly Dose of Dover newsletter right here on our award-winning website!

Time's running out, but there are still a couple of things you can do to lower your 2002 IRS tax bill...yet one more reason why you can't afford to miss the next installment of the fastest two-hours in the history of talk radio. It's the next edition of The Benjamin Dover Show, Sunday, December 22, 2002: Synchronize your watches and put it on your calendar: 6-8a (Hawaiian Time)  8-10a (Pacific Time)  9-10 am (Mountain)  10 am-12 noon (Central)  11 am-1 pm (Eastern)  4-6 pm (GMT)  9-11 pm (Baghdad time) on KFI-AM/640, Los Angeles!

 
 
 

 

 

 
 

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